The title refers to the surname of the frontwoman for Collibus – Gemma Fox. She is 33. She was born on October 20 in 1984. I couldn’t resist posting this article sooner. Here is her OkCupid profile along with a bonus photograph that was taken from her Facebook profile…

Basics (my desire and background)

Looking for men, within 250 miles, ages 25‑41, for long-term dating.
Straight, Woman, Single, Monogamous, 5’ 7”, Curvy, White, Omnivore, Atheist and Libra.
Never smokes, Drinks socially, Doesn’t do drugs, Speaks English, Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them.

About (my self-summary)

Scottish musician living in Manchester for best part of a decade. Metalhead. Tom boy. Night owl. Sarcastic. I usually reserve plastering my face with makeup for nights out and gigging only. One day, I shall buy a gym membership. Maybe. I want cats, not kids. I like coffee, not tea. I want a man, not a boy. Apparently, I’m a glue person and I bring people together, or so I’ve been told. Shy and quiet in the beginning while I’m trying to figure out new people, but be patient with me cos I’m pretty awesome once I open up.

Aspirations (what I’m doing with my life)

Working, releasing new album, gigging and sleeping!

Talent (what I’m really good at)

Singing and sleeping, but not necessarily at the same time (that I know of…).
Here’s me doing the singing thing:
No videos of me sleeping. Sorry.

Traits (the first thing people notice)

You tell me?

Culture (movies, shows, music and food)

Lover of most things Star Trek, and pretty much anything with Arnie in it. I am also partial to the occasional chick flick, and I still religiously watch Grey’s Anatomy. Don’t judge me.

Metalhead at heart, but as a musician – I have an eclectic taste. From Meshuggah to Take That! I do believe that Devin Townsend sums up everything music should be. And of course, the one and only Freddie Mercury is my musical hero.

I eat pretty much anything, not a picky eater. I love cooking. More savoury tooth than sweet tooth, though. Favourite food is Indian and anything spicy. And if you ever need to cheer me up, just put a burrito in my face and I’ll love you forever.

Needs (six things I could never do without)

My music, my instruments, my car, my Coven, my bed and my phone.

Mind (I spend a lot of time thinking about)

What the hell Barr has done to Irn bru. I’m so upset.

Moments (on a typical Friday I am…)

Probably working or gigging!

Secrets (the most private thing I’m willing to admit)

The longer I’m on dating apps, the more I realise they are just not for me. I don’t know what I’m looking for even when it’s right in front of my face, let alone on my phone screen!

Dating (what I’m actually looking for)

Somebody that knows the difference between “your” and “you’re” would be a start.

Religion questions

Do you believe in God?

Do you believe in the power of prayer?

Is astrological sign at all important in a match?

Do you put more weight in science or faith?

How important is religion/God in your life?
Not important at all.

Do you believe in karma?

On your first visit to a friend’s home, which would bother you more, the open display of a religious altar or of a porn library?
The altar.


Regardless of future plans, what’s more interesting to you right now?

Say you’ve started seeing someone you really like. As far as you’re concerned, how long will it take before you have sex?
3-5 dates.

Is foreplay necessary for good sex?

Do you enjoy meaningless sex?

Are sex and intimacy the same thing?

Are you a virgin?


Do you believe contraception is morally wrong?

For you personally, is abortion an option in case of an accidental pregnancy?

Do you enjoy crude humor, dirty jokes, and the like?
Usually, yes.

Would you get upset if your partner flirted in front of you?

Do you think it is possible for someone to be an Atheist and still have a solid moral framework by which to live?


Could you date someone who was really messy?

Which would you rather be?

Is smoking disgusting?

What kind of shape are you in?

Do you enjoy discussing politics?

Your significant other is perfectly content with their minimum wage job and has no plans to look for more challenging/better paying work. Is this a problem?
No, I don’t mind.

Which word describes you better?

How good is your singing voice?
Really awesome, actually.

Are you, or have you ever been, in a band? (A solo act is fine, too. Don’t count school bands.)

Are you almost always on time?

Would you consider having an open relationship (i.e. one where you can see other people)?

Do you like the idea of living alone?

What’s your take on “professional” wrestling?
It’s ok. If it’s on, I might watch.

How much do you usually tip a server who did a fine job?

Do you enjoy watching movies with subtitles?

Do you like coffee?
Yes. I need it to function.

Would you date someone who was in considerable debt?
Yes, if I thought the debt were justified.

Could you date someone who wasn’t sure what they wanted to do with their life?

How much influence or control do your parents have over your life?
I am my own person.

Could you be in a committed relationship with someone who regularly smokes pot ( 2 times a week)?

Do you like the taste of beer?

Are you a workaholic?

Do you consider yourself to be a picky eater?

Do you have a current passport?

On a warm night, a gentle rain begins and the sky is lit bright as day by occasional flashes of cloud-to-cloud lightning. You:
Run to the window to watch.

Do you ever eat in bed?

Do you use foul language?

Is art important to you?

Have you used psychedelic drugs (LSD, mescaline, peyote, etc.) or would you like to?
No, I have not used them and I would not try them.

Do you wear a seatbelt when you ride in an automobile?

Do you ever feel socially awkward?

When you hear the name Dylan what is the first to come to mind?
Bob Dylan.

Your date for the evening surprises you with a pair of opera tickets. You say…
“I’ve never been before, but fun!”

Do you believe that money can buy happiness?

Do you enjoy riding roller coasters?

Do you like going to amusement parks?


Do you like to cuddle?

Is intelligence a turn on?

About how long do you want your next relationship to last?
The rest of my life.

Is jealousy healthy in a relationship?

What is the most exciting thing about getting to know someone new?
Discovering your shared interests.

Are you ready to settle down and get married right now?
No way.

Pick the best date on this list:
A really nice restaurant.

Do you ever send naked selfies?
Yes, but only to someone I’m seriously dating.

Choose the better romantic activity:
Kissing in Paris.

What is your preferred cuddling position?
Small spoon.

How willing are you to meet someone from OkCupid in person?
Hesitant, but I’d certainly consider it.

How important is it to you that your partner smell good?

It’s your first date. Do you split the bill, pay the whole bill, have them pay the whole bill?
It doesn’t matter to me.

How much does physical attractiveness matter to you in a match?
A lot.

You’re up against a nearly impossible challenge. Your ideal partner…
pushes you hard to succeed.

Can you tell from someone’s online dating profile whether or not you’ll get along in real life?
About half the time.

What was the duration of your longest romantic relationship?
More than five years.

Which of these options most closely describes what you’re looking for in your next relationship?
Someone to come home to.

Have you ever been married?

Would you date a transgender person?

You’re in a budding relationship. Who would you want your significant other to meet first, your friends or your parents?
The friends.

Upon first meeting, would you be most attracted to a person who:
Is witty and charming.

How important is a potential match’s sense of humor to you?
Very important.

In a relationship, who do you prefer to be taller?
I like my partner to be taller.

Would you prefer to have one true love forever, or lots of fun and meaningful relationships?
One true love.

Which do you prefer in a significant other, generally speaking?  Dominance/aggression or submission/shyness?
A little of both, depending on the situation.

How important is money/wealth for you in a match?
Somewhat important.

Other topics

Are you smarter than most people?

Rate your self-confidence:

Do you like to argue?

Are you currently employed?
Yes, I have a fulltime job.

Do you believe in fate?

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